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Are We Closing The Book On Bookstores?

May 17, 2011

The movie You’ve Got Mail (1998) was primarily about love blooming over the internet even though the lead characters were business rivals in real life. It also explored the demise of the independent book store at a time when “mega” bookstores were first starting to take over. It’s a solid example of art imitating life. Borders and Barnes & Noble bookstores were popping up all over the place, king kong’ing many of the small, local bookstores that stood in their way.

I remember getting angry as Meg Ryan’s character walked through the “Fox Books” super bookstore. It was a big store and, to me, uninviting. Sure, it boasted nice discounts, fancy coffee drinks and more variety, but it lacked the charm and warmth of her very cut store: “The Shop Around The Corner.“ I pointed at that “Fox Books“ and thought to myself: You big bully bookstore! You just wait. You’ll get yours one day!

Well, I think that day is here.

I was in a Borders bookstore the other day and it felt like the place was on life support. I got what I came for and I was out of there. Though one of the employees assured me that they weren’t yet on the list of stores to close, I felt like death was at the door and I had no intention of being there for the flatline.

Did I originally wish so many years ago that the large bookstore chains would all go out of business? Yes, but that was only because, as far as I was concerned, it was their fault that the local ones were going under. If we lose all of the big book stores (because at least in my area that’s really all that’s left) where will we be?

There was a Barnes & Noble not far from my house that I didn’t hate. I actually spent a lot of time there. I would have preferred a smaller, more quaint, bookstore but probably because of that Barnes & Noble, there weren’t any around. Being left with no other choice, I bought my books there and enjoyed my fair share of lattes in the sitting area.

After that one closed, I defaulted to a Borders that was a little farther away. As of just recently, it’s also gonr and that bummed me out because it had a totally cool stage in the children’s section where my girls jumped around like maniacs and made best friends with kids they‘d never see again. It wasn’t bad there. My girls were happy and I could watch over them with one eye while browsing through books and toys with the other.

And the store I was just in– no, I don’t love that one either, but it’s now the closest one to my house and I’m starting to get desperate. Unfortunately, if it were a person, it would have a broken hip, a breathing tube and a poop bag. The days are numbered over there. I’m sure of it.

Why is this happening? (That is actually a rhetorical question because I think I actually know the answer–and not only that, but I think I‘m partly to blame.) I think the mortality of the mega stores has something to do with websites such as amazon.com and wireless reading devices such as the Kindle or the Nook.

It’s so easy and convenient to order a book (used or new) from Amazon.com. I’m guilty. So guilty. But I still buy from bookstores too. I haven’t caved completely. I haven’t gotten a Kindle or a Nook. I’m still buying actual books. Doesn’t that count for something?

Are we closing in on the end of bookstores? I think we might be and that makes me very sad. I guess I could go rent You’ve Got Mail at Blockbuster to make myself feel better but, oh wait…those are gone too.

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  1. JMM says

    May 17, 2011 at 9:40 am

    Books rule!

  2. Fish says

    May 17, 2011 at 4:17 pm

    Remember record stores? Who didn't love an afternoon at Record Outlet followed by some quality time at Abbey Road?

  3. annelies says

    May 17, 2011 at 4:57 pm

    Two words: local library. Even if I don't take out a book in months (I love buying 2nd hand books on flea markets and am always behind on reading) I pay my membership religiously. It was my lifeline as a child, I want it to be there when DD is old enough but still has enough time to read 4 books per week. Like me.

  4. Anonymous says

    May 18, 2011 at 1:22 am

    We are such a technological world that everything seems to be 'going by the way-side'. Mom and Pop stores taken over by the 'mega-stores' – and now the mega-stores often see less business. I mean, in some areas you can order groceries off line!

    You hit the analogy on the head — It's just like You've Got Mail….and the Fox Books Stores are downsizing — I hate that Borders and Waldenbooks are downsizing. I have to drive to Bay City to find a book-store and sometimes those are beginning to fade. Is it the end of an era…I agree with annelies — the Library is still a great place!

    Jeri

  5. Hazel M. Wheeler says

    May 18, 2011 at 4:34 pm

    I love real books. Books I can hold in my hand. Books that we, my son and I or my preschool group, can gather round. Turn pages back and forth. Examine pictures for the hundredth time.

    I can't imagine doing bedtime stories on an e-reader.

    We are so fortunate in Portland to have little niche bookshops as well as Powells. Powell's Books still stands as those other giants fall. May it stand for a long time. But I also remember a very different Powell's in high school, where a crazy patchwork assemblage of shelves accomodated books, sorted by not much more than the alphabet and handlettered signs. We used to joke that with all the nooks and crannies, if a shelf of books fell over on you, it might be days before anyone even noticed.

    What a great post, Robyn. Oh, and if you love a good movie, check out the original "Shop Around the Corner" with Jimmy Stewart and Margaret Sullavan. I watch it at Christmas every year, just because.

  6. Anonymous says

    May 19, 2011 at 4:47 pm

    remember bookpeople?!….i hate kindles 🙁

  7. Anonymous says

    May 19, 2011 at 7:45 pm

    I love real books – especially children's books but I have come to "like" my kindle. Case in point – stuck at JFK last night for over 6 hours waiting for my plane to Boston – ordered a "free book" bought a few cups of coffee and got comfy for the long haul. So easy.

  8. ster says

    May 20, 2011 at 2:14 am

    the thought of bookstores disappearing completely makes me totally want to cry. i think it would be AWFUL to have books gone. 🙁 wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

  9. Robyn says

    May 20, 2011 at 1:22 pm

    I agree. The thought of no bookstores makes me terribly sad and YES–I loved Bookpeople!! Don't go, book stores!! I can see how the ease of a kindle could be attractive though. Shlepping a bunch of books around an airport is no fun, and hard on the back. I LOVE the idea of getting "Shop Around The Corner" at XMAS time. Seems like the perfect time for that movie. I'm totally getting it, but I'll have to order it since Blockbusters seem to be going in the same direction as book stores. 🙁

  10. Erika says

    June 23, 2011 at 11:49 pm

    Talk about a blog touching my heart. Books! Books! Books! Heaven help us.

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